Key words: nonverbal communication body language different culture different ways
Contents
1. Introduction ¡¡ 1
2. The necessity and importance of learning body language on nonverbal communication ¡¡ 2
3. The concrete types and application of the body language ¡¡ 3
3.1 Types of body language ¡¡ 3
3.1.1 Distance between people conversing ¡¡ 3
3.1.2 Physical contact ¡¡ 3
3.1.3 Eye contact ¡¡ 4
3.1.4 Smiles and laughter ¡¡ 6
3.1.5 Gestures ¡¡ 6
3.2 Application of the body language ¡¡ 6
3.2.1 Greetings ¡¡ 6
3.2.2 Signs of affection ¡¡ 8
3.2.3 Physical contact in life ¡¡ 8
3.3 A comparative study of Chinese and American body language ¡¡ 9
4. Conclusion ¡¡ 12
1. Introduction
When a Chinese converses with a Canadian or American friend of the opposite sex, would it be indecent to be looking at the other person?
If two young friends of the same sex walk with their arms around each other¡¯s shoulders or hold hands, would this be regarded by English-speaking people as proper?
Does nodding the head mean ¡°yes¡±, and shaking the head mean ¡°no¡± in all cultures?
There are not questions about language, but about body language, about nonverbal communication.
Nonverbal communication, composed of pictures, dresses, eye contact, spatial signals, gestures and so on, is as important as verbal communication.
People communicate in many different ways. One of the most important ways, of course, is through language. Moreover, when language is written it can be completely isolated from the context in which it occurs; it can be treated as if it were an independent and self-contained process.
Like all animals, people communicate by their actions as well as by the noises they make. It is a sort of biological anomaly of man¡ªsomething like the giraffe¡¯s neck, or the pelican¡¯s beak¡ªthat our vocal noises have so for outgrown in importance and frequency all our other methods of signaling to one another. Language is obviously essential for human beings, but it is not the whole story of human communication. Not by a long shot.
The study of nonverbal communication should be complementary to the study of language. The understanding of one should be helpful in the further understanding of the other. Some authorities feel that the two are dependent on each other. This is certainly true in most situations. But it is also true that in certain situation body action contradicts what is being said, just as the spoken words may mean something quite different from what nonverbal communication communicates. When this occurs, one must try to get further information, or guess the meaning from the context of the situation. In a case, all nonverbal communication should be interpreted within a given context; to ignore the overall situation could be misleading.
2. The necessity and importance of learning body language on nonverbal communication
Although we may not realize it, when we converse with others we communicate by much more than words. By our expressions, gestures and other body movements we send messages to these around us a smile and an outstretched hand show welcome. A form is a sign of displeasure. Nodding one¡¯s head means agreement¡ª¡°Yes¡±. Waving an outstretched hand with open palm is the gesture for ¡°goodbye¡±. Leaning back in one¡¯s seat and yawning at a talk or lecture shows lack of interest, boredom. These gestures have come to be accepted in general as having the meanings mentioned, at last to Chinese and Americans. There are parts of the way in which we communicate. This ¡°body language¡±, like our verbal language, is also a part of our culture.
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